I throw up my hands and give it to you.  Here you take it! I’m not carrying the pain around anymore!  Joy is like a muscle it must be exercised too! I’m not simply waiting for it to happen. I claim it along with the peace of God as mine this day.  Where eerily  I turn I choose happiness. I am stubborn about gratitude in my life. This is my journey and I am always surrounded by the most loving relationships. Okay I’ll help you carry yours if you help me carry mine?